“How to meet a girl who is fond of video games?" – our Fitzdares Casino readers ask. They often ask: the lion's share of all questions in the upcoming "stand" is associated with this burning theme.
Is it really so difficult to find a heineer girl in the modern world?
We decided to understand the problem, turning for help to the fair sex. Who, if not they, knows the answer to the main question of life, the universe and all that. Funny stories, tips and comments from ladies who are not thinking of their lives without games – further in the text!
Polina Malakhova, the soul of any company
“I like games for a long time. I used to sit on all kinds of game forums and in game publics, where comments were opened. Now, probably, you can just follow chats on the same game streams – there are also girls who like games.
In addition, there are many girls who are fond of video games among cosplayers. And you can also meet at work. I met many colleagues and friends so ".
Irma Kornilova, programmer on Ruby On Rails
“How to find a girl who loves video games? She will find you herself (there should be an evil laugh here)! Well, seriously, then a fisherman fisherman, as they say. I see no reason to consciously look for such a girl. She does not have to be a gamer to the bone brain at all. Until she herself plays something, it makes no sense to believe what she says about games. Even if she says that you spend more time on games than on her, do not pay attention to it! If you teach your girlfriend to play (and this is real), she will go into it with her head and still beat the record for the clock in the game. And it is desirable that at such moments you are near and help her with advice.
You can easily get acquainted with me at any thematic events like game conferences or hackathon (developers forum). And if this acquaintance with the aim of discussing working issues, then you can easily "knock" on Facebook. I have many friends and good friends in the game industry. But it happened definitely not because I played online games for days. This is clearly not about me ".
Katerina Knecht, cosplayer
“Many people think that very few girls play games, but this is not so – there are a lot of them! Such girls can be found in online games, among cosplayers, in thematic groups and publics on social networks, at thematic exhibitions and festivals.
I myself have experience of such acquaintances. New acquaintances, some of whom are becoming my close friends, are becoming more and more, the main thing is not to be shy. By the way, I'm a fan "Witcher" , Therefore, you can also see me at all kinds of events dedicated to this fantasy universe ".
Denis Knyazev
The full -time heartfelt gambling
“First you need to get used to the idea that there are a lot of girls, according to their own confessions,. You just need to know where to look. Fast of online games? Ask among your guild members! You are at game festivals and exhibitions? Tie dating there – girls, as they themselves say, are not against friendly communication, ”said our editorial expert and female heart -eater Denis Knyazev.
Yana Dodo, Komsomol member, athlete and just beauty
“As for me, getting to know a gamer girl is very simple. First of all, ask the already existing friends if they love to play. I am sure that you simply do not know about many – because you have never asked. The Internet will also help. Now on the profile on a social network it is easy to determine which topics you can chat on. Wrote, spread a couple of phrases and agree on a walk. General, you are great!
And in general, many, it seems to me, missed a chance to meet when all this "Pokemania" began. I got acquainted with a bunch of people on the street, from children to adults. I even found work thanks Pokemon Go , Having met the future boss during the game!
But for a romantic relationship, I can’t get to know me anymore – one gamer has already found me. But for friendly gatherings and discussions of your favorite games you can!".
Ann Winter, cosplayer
“I think it turns out itself. And if it is purposefully sought, you can try to get acquainted at festivals or online. But many are apprehensive related to such acquaintances. Personally, I do not like dating on the Internet. I am alarmed by people who, for no reason, begin to write phrases like “you are cool” and further on the list. This, of course, is insanely pleasant, but sometimes it crosses all the boundaries. So the main thing is not to overdo it.
You can also get acquainted with a gamer girl on various geek conventions. For example, I am always glad to chat with people at such events. Although sometimes it is extremely difficult, especially at the end of the festival, you are very tired.
For example: I just met my good friend against the backdrop of hobby with one game. He just came up and asked if I was playing. We have a conversation, we started talking, play together. We have been friends for six years already. Now, however, we live in different cities, so virtual reality perfectly helps to overcome the distance ".
Denis Knyazev
The full -time heartfelt gambling
“One of the most important rules: you do not need to build yourself alpha male when meeting a gamer girl, and indeed when meeting any young lady. It is better to behave naturally and try to find common topics for conversation – games, books, films, “Tables”, anything ”.
Svetlana Nelipa, a permanent author of "Gamery" and the editorial muse
“Once upon a time, there were very few girls who were fond of games. Each of them was perceived as a sensation and instantly received a wagon of attention and a gift container. Alas (for girls) or fortunately (for everyone else), these times have long passed, and the complexity can now be represented by just the opposite act: how not to meet a girl.
Places for the search for roamers are quite obvious: these are online games. Ideally, equipped with voice chat, so as not to rack their heads over those who of these charming elves in real life wears a thick beard. Anyone who spent enough time in MMORPG can tell a lot of stories about how novels arose right during raids and races on dungeons, marriages were concluded, and even children started. Our main “tank” fell in love with a weak magic who lives in a neighboring city, and stopped going to raids, because he spent all his free time on the road. The leader of the guild began to meet with a girl in the same guild, and made the lady with his full deputy … although everything was not very good there, let's forget.
Do not like online games? There are many other near -playing places: forums, game exhibitions, groups on VKontakte. Imagine that you just want to talk about the future masterpiece of Kojima or find a company to capture a rare Pokemon. Look for a guy who is fond of games! And be sure: one of them will definitely turn out to be a girl ".
Denis Knyazev
The full -time heartfelt gambling
“About ten years ago, the opposite situation was observed in online games: adult men pretended to be cute elves to rub them into confidence. Since then, girls among the players have become incommensurable more ".
Sallozare, cosplayer
“Now every second girl loves video games, in my opinion. And if he does not like to play, he is familiar with the topic and at least understands her. Among friends there is not a single girl who would love this party? Then it is worth resembling all sorts of events like the same festivals. Only to be too annoying is not worth it.
The lion's share of my friends are the people that I met at thematic events or in game groups on social networks. As for acquaintance with a life companion, I prefer players … to basketball ".
Alena Andronova, Cosplayer, Streamer, novice game journalist
“In fact, girls who love games are in the same place as guys who are fond of games: at championships, festivals and so on. I almost always advise you to look at the Antikafa, there is a relaxed atmosphere, you can easily get acquainted, play together.
You can still get acquainted in the games themselves. True, I think if in Dota 2 You will hear a female voice in a chat, you will be far from lonely in your desire to achieve the attention of a girl.
I very often get acquainted with people at festivals or communicate with the audience of my channel during streams. When it comes to my favorite game, I myself show interest and start communication. But dating, leading to a romantic continuation, I did not have. But it was thanks to the games that I found many friends and people close in spirit. ".
Denis Knyazev
The full -time heartfelt gambling
“To interest a girl who is fascinated by games, it is not enough to be a gamer himself. You need to be able to maintain a conversation on any topic, whether it be cinema, book novelties or music. Of course, knowing all the songs from the previous album of Justin Bieber is not at all necessary, but it will not hurt to strive for knowledge of the new ”.
Anastasia Kuznetsova, cosplayer, member of the 501st Legion and Legion of rebels
“You can meet a gamer girl at festivals, forums or in game groups on social networks. And you can also take a closer look at already familiar girls – not about everyone can immediately say that she likes.
At the same time, write and “ask about affairs” is not enough, as it seems to me. You need to give more information about yourself so that the conversation is started. Still, by the way, with a girl who fascinates video games, you can get acquainted through common friends – ask!"
Anya Erlstram, Cosplayer
“Oddly enough, you can meet a girl in the game. Many games have a network chat or something like that, so everything is in your hands! And, of course, acquaintances are easily made at events dedicated to games, at championships, meetings with fans and thematic exhibitions.
My whole life is connected with games. Thanks to Ragnarök Online I found a crazy number of friends and my husband, and also left to live in another country twice. Play games and find your halves!"
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In general, getting to know a girl who is fond of video games is not as difficult as it seems. You just need to be a little bolder and more confident, and everything will work out! By the way, very soon in Moscow, Grammir 2016 and Comic Con Russia 2016 will be a great occasion to make new acquaintances and find girls who will share with you a passing game. Be men, men!